superpijak wrote:
You all will be proud of me. My daughter got married just this past May, (and no I did not do the shoot) and I had to play "gentle" enforcer to keep the smart phones at bay. ( well at least I managed to keep them seated) Even got my mother in law to sit back down.
:-D
Good for you. The one I did was very very informal, they are young and well...you know the rest of that saying......
They held the event in their home, I'd already made the 'fancy shots' they wanted from me, really. That's what they asked me for, they got what they wanted and I got practice and money.... What more can I ask for??
They were so happy with themselves during the reception and the family was too caught up in the event for me to really make a difference, and I would have been a big intrusion at that point if I had tried. They were happily posing together for Aunt and Uncle and Best Friend who wanted shots of them, so I fell to the back, found good spots, (we were outdoors after all, yeah) and took advantage. Who knows, But, it was annoying to have so many trying to do my work - - but I let them and when it was all said and done, the couple was happy. I gave them sots of Uncle Jerry squinting at his phone, Aunt Bethany pinching the cheeks; they seamlessly arranged themselves into groups
they wanted shots of, which in turn made Uncle and Aunt put away their phones and be unplugged for a few minutes :) so I made the shots and it was so much easier that way because I had no idea which person was the father and which was his
current wife who under no circumstances was going to be in a photo with him -- it was bad enough she was minding her manners and attending the wedding!!!! :) And even though they looked like sisters, they weren't.
I have no misconceptions that I will EVER be a pro photographer anything, but listening to those of you who do this professionally and handle the "public" like this on a constant basis, enabled ME, when I was approached as a photographer and asked to do this, to tackle it with some good sense, and to give them photos they could be very happy with. It wasn't studio work, it wasn't even formal work, but I can say that it was good work!!
And it was NOT one of those weddings where I felt this was above my skill level. Listening to good advice I know better than to even think about doing something formal, but as a beginner, I think most of you would have at least given me a nod of approval :) The couple gave me dollars :) :) :) :)